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Recommendations: What We Recommend (An Overview)

by Adam

As a mere fragment of the application package, letters of recommendation are likely to be less important than the applicants’ own work: their grades, test scores, extracurricular achievements and essays. Still, a selective admissions department wouldn’t ask for such letters if they didn’t serve some purpose. That purpose is to bring the applicants to life, to lift them off paper and become unique human beings who students and faculty could be interacting with on a daily basis. The best way to produce this effect is through a revealing, anecdote-filled letter insightfully written by a person willing and able to provide such a personal description.

However, applicants rarely seek out such recommendations, and as a result the letter of recommendation is perhaps the most underutilized aspect of students’ applications. You should, therefore, seek out someone in your life who knows you well, regards you in a positive light and has interesting and personal things to say about you as an individual. That someone may be a teacher, a coach, a drama director, an employer, a religious leader, a community leader, a parent, a grandparent, a sibling, or even an intelligent friend. What matters is not the credentials of the writer, but the capacity in which they are able to write about you. This means that the first-year teacher who would feel honored to write about you would be a better choice than the most popular teacher in school who already has dozens of recommendations to write and little time to do it in.

Applicants also too often attempt to use a connection to an alumnus, trustee, or politician to obtain seemingly valuable recommendations. Unfortunately, unless that alumnae is someone who knows you well or you’ve worked personally for the politician, such recommendations are often bland, generic assertions that you are a qualified applicant. If the admissions committee doesn’t already know that anyway, you’re in trouble.

If selecting a teacher to write your recommendation, there are a few questions that you should answer for yourself first:

What do you intend to major in? Most schools ask you this question on the application, and a letter from a chemistry teacher may go a longer way for a student who has portrayed himself as a prospective chemistry major. The student is also more likely to have shown his enthusiasm and curiosity in chemistry class.
What grades have you received in a teacher’s course? Teachers from whom you have received easy A’s may seem equally easy prospects for letters of recommendation, but imagine this scenario: French comes easy to you; you can breeze through the assignments faster than you can say “Je suis fini,” tests are a breeze, and you don’t have to pay much attention in class. Now math, on the other hand, is a bit more challenging. You’re enrolled in a rigorous course, and have had to spend an exorbitant amount of time to keep up with the material, often asking your teacher a few questions after class, and your grade started out as a B, but has since climbed to a high A-. Which teacher will probably write a better letter for you?

Finally, honestly ask yourself if you get along with the teacher. This seems obvious, but many students overlook the fact that they do not see eye to eye with a teacher if they have received an A in that teacher’s class.

Once you’ve singled out one or two people who have the ability to write personally about your character, make sure you know how to politely and unintrusively ask them to write a letter on your behalf, while still making sure that they know what you hope such a letter will achieve. When you approach a potential recommendation writer, first tell them which schools you’re applying to, and then ask if they have the time and are comfortable writing a recommendation for you. Most will probably say yes if you know them well enough, but asking first prevents you from coming off as demanding--plus if they decline, they wouldn’t have written much of a recommendation anyway.

After getting their consent, be sure you have all the proper forms; many selective schools require a signature form and “rating sheet” in addition to the letter itself. Along with the forms, include a list of your achievements in case the writer needs a nudge to get started, and also include an addressed and stamped envelope for each college. Prepare some type of sheet or cover letter that lists the deadline for each letter. Also be sure to sign the Buckley Amendment, effectively waiving your right to see what is written about you. If you’re concerned that the writer may write negative things about you if he or she knows that you will never be able to see them, you’re either paranoid or have chosen the wrong person to write your recommendation. Waiving your right both displays your trust and makes the writer more comfortable with writing a personal letter.

Finally, be sure that the writer knows what is expected--that your looking for an in-depth assessment of your character from an outside perspective. Ask them to make it interesting, fill it with anecdotes, make it unique--make it lift you off paper and bring you to life.

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